خلاصة:
Increasing marital tensions, mental health problems of some married women, and increasing extramarital affairs raise the question of how effective sexual dissatisfaction in women is in these tensions and what are the consequences of these failures? In some studies, although this issue has been addressed from different dimensions, but the lack of a comprehensive psychological and sociological perspective on the consequences of female sexual failure is evident, so in this article, married women understand sexual failure and its effects. It deals with individual, interpersonal and social.The qualitative research approach and the method of conducting it were in-depth interviews and the findings were analyzed with a phenomenological approach. For the interview, samples were consciously selected from women referring to counseling centers. A total of semi-structured in-depth interviews were conducted with 35 people in one- to two-hour sessions to reach saturation.The results of the interviews were categorized into four main categories of perception of failure, individual consequences, interpersonal and social consequences, which showed different perceptions of married women about sexual failure and caused a reaction. چون Anxiety, depression, isolation, conflict, emotional divorce, desire to have an extramarital affair.
ملخص الجهاز:
Sexual frustration is one of the main and important causes driving women toward extra-marital relationships, which can lead to significant and noteworthy social harms.
An important point in the proposed concepts is not the existence of an emotional and sexual vacuum in the men related to these women, who, due to dissatisfaction with their marital life, have had a tendency to form new extra-marital relationships, and in this respect, they share common ground with women.
Acts of male dominance are one of the important topics in marital sexual relationships, where the existence of power and a sense of superiority leads to the emergence of violent behaviors, ignoring the desires of the other party, and a feeling of total ownership over women's bodies.
However, other women, beyond orgasm and achieving it, considered factors such as the lack of desirable emotional connection, abnormalities, and male sexual misconduct as important contributing factors to the feeling of frustration.
Sexual disorders and deviations lead to significant psychological consequences such as feelings of sadness and loneliness, isolation, anger and aggression, avoidance of re-establishing sexual contact, frustration, decreased self-confidence, lack of enjoyment of life, Some of the interviewees stated that their spouses resorted to acts of violence for sexual intercourse, which has caused physical and psychological harm to women.
McNulty2 (2019), in the research "The Relationship Between Gender and Marital Dissatisfaction," emphasized the impact of women's sexual dissatisfaction on life satisfaction and considers gender an important factor in this subject and the perception of failure.